Many people believe personal magnetism, the idea that others gravitate toward your personality, to be a trait you are born with at birth. Although, similar to charisma, this skill can be learned throughout the course of your life. To be more magnetic to others, you should be up-front, honest, and positive. You should be able to convey and express your emotions clearly and confidently. Finally, by holding true to your convictions, you’ll appear less indecisive to others, who will naturally gravitate to your presence.
Key Takeaways:
- When you are positive, more people will often gravitate towards you.
- Show your emotions clearly. Even if some are bad or negative, it’s better to show it rather than hide it.
- Always think about what you’re going to say before saying it to make sure you don’t look bad.
“I do a lot of speaking engagements. Something you learn after doing a few of those is just how valuable charisma is. The experience of listening to a speaker versus delivering a talk is two distinct sides of a coin, but there is one thing you’re sure of on both sides of the fence: whether or not the person on the other end of it is engaging.”
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